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تعریف انگلیسی

Adolescents strive to achieve their own independence in living and psychological conditions. However, they are still caught in the conflict between complete independence and dependency on parents, especially same-sex parents. Before adolescence, teenagers try to identify with their same-sex parent. Meanwhile, the warm role of parents in the pre-adolescent relationship is very important and determines the authority of parents. Independence requires respect, and there is a conflict between the biological and psychological needs of adolescence with social conditions. Acceptance of independence and a specific identity by adolescents can reduce this conflict, but their uniqueness can exacerbate this conflict and revert them to pre-adolescent periods. Our social conditions exacerbate this conflict because we still perceive adolescents as children, especially by society and family. One of the exacerbating factors of this conflict is the unconscious or deliberate resistance of parents to the growth of their children, especially by mothers and especially in nuclear and single-child families. These conditions may exacerbate the conflict between accepting independent adult identity and returning to pre-adolescent stages. Therefore, parents must accept that their children are growing up and consider the fact that due to the acceleration of the information space, psychological maturity may occur more quickly.